Pride listened, ears flicking forward as he watched both James and the in-motion rock. The foal, from what he could gather, lacked confidence: a nervousness that built on itself, reinforcing its own negativity. But...
"That isn't that uncommon, I think," Pride started, slowly, carefully. "Being unsure what to say, I mean. Confidence comes with experience, and young as you are, you haven't had the chance to build that up. Try not to think less of yourself for it; I certainly don't," he added, a kind lilt to his tone. He aimed to toss the stone back to James, in a gentle throw. It caught midair, and soared back in a slow arc.
"If this 'Ari' claimed to understand, but does not, then it sounds as though he lacks experience, as well. It sounds like a problem on his end; a lack of perspective. And James-..." Pride took a breath, shaking his head. "Not wanting to hurt others does not make you a coward. Perhaps we can focus on teaching you protection, without harm. Would you like to learn that? You could be the first; I know no one who has done this. Magical shields? Barriers? Blocks? You know, simply holding someone at bay with the very magic we're using is enough to protect without harm," he pointed out, still gently.
Until someone gives you no choice, he thought to himself, grimly; but that, he hoped, was something James would not encounter any time soon.
"I don't mean to belittle or diminish you by simply brushing away your concerns with 'you're young,' but you will gain experience with time, and no one expects a two-cycle-old Gembound to have the answers to everything. Questioning it is a good first step," he added, as reassuringly as he could.